In the first part of this blog post I mentioned how important your self-worth is when it comes to manifesting your soulmate.

The following steps I outline really help with creating a mindset that is supportive and loving towards yourself, but at the same time will put you on the path that’s going to lead you straight to your soulmate. Win!



The universe responds to your subconscious mind, so make sure it’s thinking and feeling loving thoughts about yourself.

I love Louise Hay’s affirmations. Pick one and write it at least 30 times every morning. Repetition helps your subconscious mind accept this affirmation… even if you don’t really believe it to start with.

After a week of doing this, it won’t feel so awkward I promise! You’ll begin to believe it, and to feel it.

My favourite affirmation at the moment is “I love and accept myself exactly as I am”.

When you love yourself, you attract more love to yourself. 



Take care of yourself. Do what you need to do to make yourself feel good. Maybe this means getting  more sleep, eating healthier or exercising more? Maybe it just means having more ‘you’ time.

Be your own best friend. Be more selfish. Put your happiness first.  

Basically, if you don’t become your own best friend, your’e not going to be able to attract a best friend in a soul mate.



Think about what you want in a soulmate. Get incredibly clear about it and WRITE IT DOWN. The more detail the better.

List the attributes your soulmate will have… and read your list daily. 

The more you focus on what you want and clearer you are, the faster this will manifest in your reality.

Where your focus goes, energy flows.



When you meet your soulmate, and they become a part of your life… how are you going to feel? What feelings do you associate with being with your soulmate? Is it loved, happy, appreciated, desired, free, special, supported…?

Write the feelings that you want down, and next to each one write how you can create that feeling for yourself; right now. It’s your new priority to do what it takes to make you feel those very emotions, immediately.

For example… feeling appreciated… write down all the things that YOU appreciate about yourself.

The universe will provide you with more reasons to experience those emotions, when you practice feeling them now. Feeling love for yourself, will draw more love to you. 



Spend time each day visualizing your perfect partner. Five minutes imagining them each day, will draw your soul mate closer to you, and faster.

Visualising is pretty much the same as day-dreaming, but with more intention. I know you can day-dream, so you’ve got this! 

When you visualize, the universe sees that visualisation (day-dream) as your reality, even if it’s not. The Law of Attraction has to give you more of your ‘reality’; like attracts like.



Stop focusing on the fact that you haven’t met your soulmate (yet).

The Universe knows you want to meet your soulmate and it will deliver them to you. The more you feel sorry for yourself and the more you focus on feeling alone, the more you’ll keep attracting that story.

The story of being alone.

Let go of the emotions that don’t feel good. Focus on feeling excited that you will meet them instead.

Neediness is not going to attract your soulmate.

Release the stress you feel from waiting. Release the need to meet your soulmate right now. It will happen when it happens. Promise!



The more fun you have, the better you feel, and the better you feel higher your vibration. A positive and high vibration, will attract manifestations of that same vibration.

So, make the most of your single-life while you can. Look for the positive aspects in being single, you might be surprised by how many things you actually enjoy about being single!

The universe will provide you more reasons to have fun when you’re having fun already.



… Three and a bit years ago, I knew I had to change my mindset if I wanted to meet my person.

I knew that my soulmate was out there. I knew that they would manifest into my life… but I also knew that I needed to enjoy my days until that time came. I needed to have fun now, and to let go of feeling like my life wouldn’t be fulfilled until

I was stuck in the feeling sorry for myself mindset.

Then I got sick of it. I got sick of feeling sorry for myself, and feeling like I wasn’t good enough… So I came up with a plan to change my mindset.


One month later, I’d manifested the opportunity to really meet my soulmate.


Now, you have the same plan that I had, to manifest your soul-mate!


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